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Never Have I Ever Questions for Couples

Flirty and a little revealing, but nothing explicit. These work on a date night, a couples' game night, or as a way to learn something new about someone you've known for years.

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The full list: 25 questions

Prefer to read them all? Every question in the generator is below.

For couples (25)

  1. Never have I ever had a crush on someone at first sight.
  2. Never have I ever written a love letter.
  3. Never have I ever been on a blind date.
  4. Never have I ever said 'I love you' first.
  5. Never have I ever gone on a date with someone I met online.
  6. Never have I ever kissed someone on the first date.
  7. Never have I ever been in a long-distance relationship.
  8. Never have I ever stalked an ex online.
  9. Never have I ever broken up with someone over text.
  10. Never have I ever planned a surprise date.
  11. Never have I ever had a crush on my partner's friend.
  12. Never have I ever pretended to like a gift from a partner.
  13. Never have I ever cried at a wedding.
  14. Never have I ever had a relationship last less than a week.
  15. Never have I ever dated two people at the same time.
  16. Never have I ever been in love with someone who didn't know.
  17. Never have I ever gotten back together with an ex.
  18. Never have I ever lied about how many people I've dated.
  19. Never have I ever gone through a partner's phone.
  20. Never have I ever planned our wedding in my head before we were serious.
  21. Never have I ever sent a flirty text to the wrong person.
  22. Never have I ever faked liking a partner's hobby.
  23. Never have I ever been told I'm a bad kisser.
  24. Never have I ever kept something from an ex for sentimental reasons.
  25. Never have I ever had a celebrity crush my partner doesn't know about.

How to play Never Have I Ever

  1. Everyone holds up ten fingers (some groups use five to keep games short).
  2. One person reads a 'Never have I ever...' statement from the generator.
  3. Anyone who HAS done the thing puts one finger down.
  4. Take turns reading statements around the circle. Anyone may ask for the story behind a finger.
  5. The last person with fingers still up wins. Or skip the scoring and play for the stories.

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Questions people ask

How do you play Never Have I Ever?

Players hold up ten fingers. One person says something they have never done, starting with 'Never have I ever'. Everyone who has done it puts a finger down. The last person with fingers up wins.

Is there a clean version for kids?

Yes. Pick the 'Clean / family' category in the generator. Every statement in it is safe for young kids and classrooms.

What are good never have I ever questions for work?

Stick to universal workplace moments: reply-all mistakes, being unmuted on a call, the office fridge. The 'For work' category is written to be HR-safe and works for team building.

Can you play Never Have I Ever online?

Yes. Share this page on a video call, or copy a statement into a group chat and have people react with a thumbs up if they have done it.

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