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Would You Rather Questions for Couples

Good for a first date, a tenth anniversary, or anywhere between. Some are light, some are romantic, and a few will tell you something you didn't know.

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The full list: 35 questions

Prefer to read them all? Every question in the generator is below.

For couples (35)

  1. Would you rather go on a beach vacation or a mountain cabin trip together?
  2. Would you rather have a fancy dinner out or a cozy cooked dinner at home?
  3. Would you rather get a handwritten love letter or a surprise weekend away?
  4. Would you rather relive our first date or skip ahead to our 50th anniversary?
  5. Would you rather always know what I'm thinking or always know how I'm feeling?
  6. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or sing karaoke together in public?
  7. Would you rather plan every date or have every date planned for you?
  8. Would you rather live in a tiny apartment in a big city or a big house in the countryside together?
  9. Would you rather have breakfast in bed or a midnight snack date?
  10. Would you rather travel the world together for a year or buy our dream home?
  11. Would you rather watch a scary movie or a romantic comedy together?
  12. Would you rather have a pet dog or a pet cat together?
  13. Would you rather spend a day with no phones or a day with no talking?
  14. Would you rather receive a small gift every day or one big gift a year?
  15. Would you rather go stargazing or watch the sunrise together?
  16. Would you rather argue and make up quickly or never argue but stay quiet when upset?
  17. Would you rather have matching tattoos or matching outfits for a day?
  18. Would you rather cook together or take a cooking class together?
  19. Would you rather have a big wedding or elope?
  20. Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon forever?
  21. Would you rather know every one of my secrets or keep a little mystery?
  22. Would you rather take a road trip or a train trip across the country together?
  23. Would you rather have a lazy Sunday in pajamas or an adventurous Sunday outdoors?
  24. Would you rather I be really good at cooking or really good at giving massages?
  25. Would you rather get a love song written about you or a painting made of you?
  26. Would you rather redo our first kiss or our first 'I love you'?
  27. Would you rather go on a double date or a solo date?
  28. Would you rather have a house full of kids or a house full of pets?
  29. Would you rather spend a holiday with my family or your family?
  30. Would you rather be surprised on your birthday or plan it together?
  31. Would you rather share every dessert or each get our own?
  32. Would you rather live next door to your parents or mine?
  33. Would you rather do a couples' workout or a couples' massage?
  34. Would you rather revisit the place we met or go somewhere neither of us has been?
  35. Would you rather have a love story that's a comedy or a love story that's an adventure?

How to play Would You Rather

  1. Get a group together. It works with two people or twenty.
  2. One person reads a question out loud, from the generator or the list.
  3. Everyone picks one option. You have to pick; 'neither' is not allowed.
  4. Each player explains their choice in a sentence. The explanations are the best part.
  5. Pass the phone to the next person and let them draw the next question.

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Questions people ask

What is a good would you rather question?

A good one has two options that are close in appeal, so people actually have to think. 'Would you rather have more time or more money?' works because most people want both. If everyone answers the same way, the question is too easy.

Are these questions appropriate for kids?

The 'For kids' category is written for young children and every question in it is clean. The rest of the list is family friendly too, but a few in the Hard and Deep categories touch on topics like death that you may want to skip with little ones.

Can I play Would You Rather over text or on Zoom?

Yes. Draw a question here, press Copy, and paste it into the chat. On a video call, share your screen with this page and let people answer in turn.

How do you win Would You Rather?

Usually nobody wins. If you want a score, have everyone vote and give a point to each player in the majority, or to each player in the minority if you want to reward the odd ones out.

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